As a mom, wife, health coach, entrepreneur, PTO member, Rotarian… I find that my “time” is limited. (or is it?)
The calendar on my “smart”phone is often filled with lots of running and back to back appointments across the county. It is very easy for me to get “so busy” that I forget about the things that are important – LIKE MY HEALTH!
Many times, as a mom & wife, I get so wrapped up in taking care of the needs of my family, that I forget what it is that I need to do for myself.
I can remember my mom’s 30th birthday, when Dad took us all to Lafayette to celebrate HER birthday, but when we got there we spent all the time shopping for my sister and I and before we knew it, the time was up and we hadn’t done anything for mom. Her 30th birthday was a BIG sacrifice for us! (It happens – my 40th was a bit like this too, but that’s a story for another day. LOL)
Today, as Moms, it is SO important that we remember to take time to support our personal health and that we don’t get distracted by the little things (like Candy Crush & Facebook) and that we get the important things in there.
So, what is a busy mom supposed to do to make time for a healthier YOU?
- Dump list & Daily 4: List out all that you need to do for the week, then create the FOUR most important things to accomplish THAT day… (maybe 5… but NO MORE) If you accomplish the first 4, then you can move on to other things on that list. (At the end of the day, do yourself a favor and write down all you accomplished – then list the FOUR things for you to do tomorrow)
- Work on the 30 minute “FOCUS” time system: As you begin to work on things from that list, remember the 30 minute rule. SET A TIMER (your smartphone has one) Focus on that one task for 30 minutes. (Yes, you can answer your kids, redirect them, etc. but remember to return right back to that task.) I am frequently amazed at how much I can accomplish in a 30 minute time frame when I put my mind to it!
- If you are going to cook anyway, make it worth it! Prepare multiple meals at once. I don’t like to waste time in the kitchen, so if I need to be in the kitchen to make dinner/lunch/breakfast I like to prepare foods for future meals. Make the most of the time I am in the kitchen and save time in the future for food prep.
- Remember your supplements! When my immune system is weakened due to holes in my daily nutrition, I tend to succumb to whatever crap is floating around. It took me a while to learn to remember to take my morning supplements. I created my routine by using my smartphone alarm app.
- Squeeze in some workout whenever you can: I am NOT above doing squats in the bathroom whenever I need to “go”. Add a few extra steps when you head to the store. Be active WITH your family. Park a bit further from the store and walk a few extra steps. (This is my daughter’s new favorite thing to do.)
Adding steps is an easy way to improve our fitness
- Take time to rest! Our kids aren’t the only ones who need rest. By rest, I don’t mean 20 minutes sitting in the recliner playing Bubble Witch2 or scanning FB from your phone. I MEAN, 20 minutes of quiet. I have implemented a 30 minutes a day reading requirement for my daughter (she’s 7 now). That is my time to reflect, pray, meditate, or read something to provide myself that needed recharge time.
I have other tips, but these seem to be the most important for my daily sanity and health. A few simple focused minutes now can set me up for easier, quicker, healthier sailing later on!
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